the end was just the beginning
Every day I hear or read another divorce war story. And they are invariably horrible. As Jackie Pilossoph from DivorcedGirlSmiling notes: "All post-divorce relationships are different. Few are good, even fewer are great, and most of what I see when it comes to couples' post-split relationships is quite honestly, hideous." I wouldn't say mine is... Continue Reading →
I felt like the most terrible person on earth yesterday afternoon. I suspected trouble was brewing when my ex sent a text saying the youngest was "v excited about trapeze." When I picked her up from school she started hyperventilating about how she couldn't wait to see her trapeze. So I broke the sad news... Continue Reading →
Do you look forward to long weekends? When you're a journalist, they're a bit meh. Journalists - newspaper ones especially - work on public holidays. News waits for no man's getaway, it's just other day in the office. Long weekends are even more meh for me these days because my ex has the kids every Sunday... Continue Reading →
I don't know how I'm going to break the news: bedroom gymnastics have been banned. The disappointment factor is going to be high. Remember how I bought the youngest a trapeze for her birthday? The idea was to hang it above her bed. As you do. I've also been contemplating slides and swings in the... Continue Reading →
My mum took pity on me when I blogged that I couldn't afford a Bonds tracksuit top from Woolies and sent a text message saying she'd pay for it. Bless her. So I hoofed back to discover I wasn't the only one who'd gone berserk at the prospect of clothes shopping in a supermarket -... Continue Reading →
The youngest and I were hoping to finally watch Pitch Perfect last night, but the eldest put the kibosh on it because it's "not suitable." "It's 'm' rated and that's not for violence," she admonished. Oh. OK. Cue pouting from me and the nine-year-old. The 11-year-old is going through a prudish phase, if she sees... Continue Reading →
My sister texted me yesterday morning around 8am, worried there was something wrong because I hadn't blogged yet. That's the problem with blogging every single freaking day, people think you've fallen under a bus if you don't. The back-end of my site informed me earlier this week that the most popular time of the week... Continue Reading →
Thursday mornings are a strange beast. I wake up alone in a silent house with no school lunches or work commute to make. No kids, no work ... the day stretches before me like a gift. But sometimes I want a refund. Today is one of those days. I miss the tousled blonde staggering out... Continue Reading →
It's supposed to be one of those admirable traits we teach our children, but I've realised there's something I'm not good at sharing ... THEM. My ex's girlfriend - SSF - is becoming an increasingly open presence in his world and therefore my kids' lives. At first the girls were strangely silent about their dad's... Continue Reading →
I can't quite believe I'm three years shy of 50. I still think - and act - like I'm 35. I spot my wrinkles in the mirror sometimes and think "Hang on - who the hell is that?" I certainly don't feel almost 50, even though I complain about "descending into middle-age" and embracing trakkie... Continue Reading →
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