It's been hard to understand and process the last six months. But over the past week I've felt like I'm finally getting answers. And its kinda blown my mind. I've been given some surprising psycho-babble labels for my journey, gone away for a snuggle with my best friend Dr Google and started researching them. It's... Continue Reading →
Happy birthday to meeeeeee!
It's a bittersweet birthday this year. I turn 46 today and 23 years ago I met Husband. So that's officially half my life ... geez I can't even begin to give you a word or phrase that encapsulates the sadness of it all. And today will be my first birthday since our fateful meeting in... Continue Reading →
Kids in the kitchen: bacon and avocado linguine (with a side of Ferris)
The eldest hit the hotplates again last night and it was gooood. She whipped up a gorgeous dish of bacon and avocado linguine, then we curled up on the sofa and scoffed it while watching Ferris Bueller's Day Off. I wasn't keen for Ferris, but the eldest was insistent. She'd watched half the movie at a... Continue Reading →
It’s a beautiful day
It was glorious around my neck of the woods yesterday. A golden autumn interlude, all crisp and bright after the recent rain. Mind you, it didn't stop me waking bleak. But the beautiful day refused to let me stay that way. Its insidious attack started early: my youngest is a fitness fanatic and insisted on... Continue Reading →
Things I should’ve done but I never did
I'm being haunted by a little thing called regret this week. Geez it's a cruel bastard. I wrote a blog about regret after I got sacked a few years ago. A lot has happened since then, and yet in many ways nothing has changed at all. Here's what I said back in 2012 ... “What’s done... Continue Reading →
Just keep livin’
The house jooshing has ground to a halt following an ill-advised brush (or should that be tarring?) with mixed drinks on Monday night. I'd been so chipper and go-get-em until then too. Blah. Fortunately I made some progress in the living room before the setback. So I thought I'd share the shots ... That's my... Continue Reading →
I have some advice for you
Never, ever utter the words "Can I have a double vodka and Diet Coke in a tall glass" at the beginning of a night out. Sure, you say you'll drink it slowly and show restraint for the rest of the night ... And then you find yourself puking your guts up in your bathroom at... Continue Reading →
The way we were
The epic house clear-out/joosh continues apace ... and in my travels/unravels I discovered this ...It's a replica of something called a botafumeiro. It's an incense burner swung by priests as a form of prayer. And I once watched the real thing do this in the Cathedral of Santiago de Compostela in Spain ...It's an understatement to say... Continue Reading →
11 cop-out quotes
I once promised a lawyer I wouldn't write a book about a nasty interlude in my career. I said it was an easy commitment because I don't have a book in me. While it's unsettling to know you're a writer who doesn't harbour that sort of brilliance - it would be oh-sooooo awesome to be... Continue Reading →
I see red
I've been taking my mind off things (while ironically preparing for their inevitable consequences) by doing a little house schmicking. And I've decided it's time for a show and tell. First stop: the family room/kitchen. The jooshing kicked off with an iron stand I bought in Lane Cove years ago, which had been languishing in... Continue Reading →